The Balanced Fem

Money—it’s something most of us think about every day, yet it often carries a complicated mix of emotions: hope, fear, frustration, and sometimes confusion. For many navigating business or personal financial growth, feeling stuck around money can be one of the most invisible yet persistent challenges. You might feel like you’re doing everything right, but somehow the flow just isn’t smooth. Things slow down, doors seem to close, and responses become automatic “no’s” or endless loops of “try again later.” It’s like there’s an invisible barrier you keep running up against — a block, but not one that shows up clearly on any spreadsheet or bank statement.

I have faced this myself. What began as a simple issue trying to get a payment system fully operational became a draining cycle of confusion and delay. Day after day, I was bounced between agents giving scripted answers with no resolution in sight. At first, I thought it was typical bureaucracy, but then I realized it was something deeper — a money block playing out in real time.

This experience revealed something crucial: money blocks aren’t just about money. They are deeply tied to self-worth, safety, and your beliefs about receiving.

It's More Than Money: The Architecture of Control

A money block asks a deeper question: Do you feel worthy? Have you internally claimed what’s yours? Are you afraid to take up space? Are you still afraid of being perceived as different or difficult? Do you believe that you are a good steward? How much value do you place on yourself? Do you feel safe enough to keep escalating an issue until it’s resolved? Or do you settle for the word “no,” the runaround, or silence?

It’s not just about the dollars — it’s about the architecture of control designed to keep you small, doubting yourself, and how you navigate through it.

Recognizing and Breaking Free from Money Blocks

Here’s what to watch for:

• You find yourself stuck in loops with customer service or digital systems that never resolve your problem.
• You hear "no" or "we can’t do that" when you know there must be a way.
• You repeat the same steps with no progress, feeling more frustrated or doubtful.
• You begin to question your own legitimacy or authority because nothing seems to work.

Recognizing these patterns is the first step to breaking free.

You may also feel resistance when you:

• Quote a policy, and suddenly you face silence.
• Cite the law, and they gaslight you.
• Present the facts, and they pretend not to see them.

Why? Because that level of awareness disrupts the programming. Once you see it, you stop negotiating with false authority and empty words. These are the mechanics of a system built on managing scarcity. Remember, debt isn’t just a number—it’s a spell, a false agreement drafted in language most of us were never taught to read. In a spiritual sense, this system mirrors inner dysfunction and it only works if you give it authority.

The breakthrough comes when you refuse to accept the runaround, when you insist on speaking with the person who truly has the authority to solve the issue—and when that happens, everything shifts almost instantly. The flow that was blocked bursts open, doors swing wide, and capacity expands — financially, energetically, and professionally. In this dimension, you rarely get what’s owed to you, you get what you claim.

What a Season Without Money Blocks Looks Like

A season without money blocks feels entirely different. It’s full of easy “yes’s,” swift resolutions, and people ready and able to give you accurate information—cheerfully. You don’t have to jump through hoops or feel like you're wearing down your energy just to get things done. It feels like being offered a courtesy fee waiver, remembering that investment account you forgot you had, having someone else buy your groceries this week, or a encountering a nice customer service representative who gives you all the tea; giving you the authority and clarity to make a new decision.

Clearing Money Blocks: Persistence and Expectation

Besides physical rituals, one of the most powerful ways to clear money blocks is through persistence. Make “no” a word that doesn’t exist in your vocabulary when it comes to your financial flow. Walk in the essence of expectation—not arrogance, but a steady knowing that everything always works out. This kind of persistent confidence breaks the spell of scarcity and opens you to receive.

Spiritually, you can also ask for guidance in accessing your finances. If there is a block, it often reveals itself in patterns of three: one day you can’t log in to your bank account even though you know your money is there; another day, a payment gets unexpectedly stopped; and on yet another occasion, you find yourself having to compete for a raise that should have been given freely because you already deserve it.

Claiming What’s Yours

This energy shift is powerful. It’s about stepping into your own authority with calm assertion, holding steady without chaos or frustration, and demanding flow where there once was blockage.

If you’re facing resistance in your financial or business life, pause and ask yourself:

• Am I being sent in circles?
• Is this more complicated than it needs to be?
• Am I being discouraged from getting what’s already mine?

If the answer is yes, you’re likely facing a real, impactful money block — a blockage that’s structural but revealing something deeper underneath. The good news is, once you see it for what it is, you can move beyond hope and demand alignment. You can hold space for the breakthrough instead of settling for less. Remember: what’s already yours doesn’t need to be chased—it needs to be claimed.

Take a deep breath. You’ve got this. The next level is ready for you.

If you need to schedule a session for a money block clearing or check for blockages, visit the reserve consultation link on the homepage.